Men, how to secure your love to a lady

I always find that guys are not sure how to express their love to their lady. There's once I overheard some guys saying that women are contradictory. At one sec, the say it's okay for him to go out, and the next she got angry over him going out with his friends till late night. Sometimes, she wants independence, and when he gave her independence, she thinks he didn't care much about her. Women are such a contradictory animal huh? Yes, we are. I admit that, cz sometimes, even we ourselves don't know what we want. Tell me about moderation. You'll never reach the equilibrium point. You would always fall on either extreme. Yeah.

But I just realize recently, actually what women wants needed most from their men. Well, at least women for the circle of women that I knew.. what they want most is the reassurance from men. Dear men nation, you have to understand, women does compare- more often and about more things than men does. Even as simple as walking past a hot sexy lady would lower her self-esteem like crazy. Simply giving reassurance to her that you would love her the way she is, would boost her confidence in the current relationship and thus decrease her fickled decision about what she wants. Simple gestures like holding her hands, kissing her forehead or giving her flowers once a while would be more than enough to show your love to her.

I don't know, that's what I think what women want most. If you realize your women acts/dress recently, you may perhaps want to secure her in this manner. By that way, she would be less 'clingy' and feel confident about you going out without her and also her position in your heart. If I would have a partner, I don't constantly want assurance from him like everyday - which is too much. But well, once a while, to feel that you're appreciated is what I would want from my man. Even like those simple gestures, or preparing meals or giving a small lovely note is enough to make my day wonderful.

Well, men.. I hope you would read this and understand it. Even you're the coolest, cutest, hottest, or richest man in the world, should you not give any assurance to your lady, she may not have open her heart to you much.